Signs of a Troubled Teen Nearly all runaways come from homes in which there are clear problems, though there are cases where there has been little obvious trouble in the home. In any case, it is important for parents to be aware of the possibility that their child may run away, and to be aware of the warning signs that often precede it.
One major warning sign is a sudden change in behavior. This change may be one of eating or sleeping habits. A young person may suddenly start overeating, or not eat enough. He or she may begin sleeping all day, or staying up all night. Changes in social habits can also indicate problems, particularly when a teenager becomes withdrawn from friends and outside contacts. If a young person begins to show sudden swings in mood, going from very happy to very sad, for example, there is a good chance that he or she is undergoing some sort of stress that is difficult to resolve.
Other warning signs include sudden rebellious behavior, like fighting or skipping school, as well as accumulating money, clothes, and other personal items in one place, like a bag or backpack. Parents may even hear of their child's intention to run away. This information could come from the teenager's friends, teachers, or from the teenager him or herself. Such information should be taken seriously and not dismissed as a simple plea for attention.
To prevent a child from running away, the most important thing a parent can do is to show care and understanding. Confronted with the warning signs, parents should not wait, but immediately show their concern and their desire for their child to remain home. This may be all that parents can do, but it is often enough.
Discuss the following questions. l. Have you ever been through a "rebellious" period? If so, how long did it last and what were its consequences?
2. What should the government and social service organizations do to prevent children from running away, and to help those who do?
